Among other things, her daughters
were not allowed to watch TV, play computer games, host/go on play dates or
sleepovers, appear in school plays, get any grade less than an A, not be the
no. 1 student in any subject except drama and gym, choose their extracurricular
activities, play any musical instrument aside from the piano or violin, or
refrain from playing either of those instruments.
On one occasion, she called one of
her daughters "garbage." On another, Chua rejected a handmade card one
of her daughters made her for Mother's Day on the grounds that it wasn't good
enough. On still another, she threatened to burn her daughter's stuffed toys if
she could not master a piano piece, and made her practice it dozens of times
into the night, refusing to even allow her to go to the bathroom. That sounds
ghastly, but hey, at least she didn't beat her daughter to death with a pipe
for mispronouncing a word.